The Question

Earlier this evening I overheard my wife talking with M about his twin's "ASD." At one point M said, "I wonder what ASD is like." It was all I could do not to intrude on their moment by walking into the room and giving M a hug.

Like his parents, he really doesn't understand what it's like to have autism, but even at such a young age, he's trying. I love that boy.

Sad Toy, Happy Toy

This guy — part of a vintage Fisher Price schoolhouse we found for the boys — really upset C. We had to put him away.* angry-toy

No surprise: the letter tiles were a big hit, adding to our suspicions that C might be hyperlexic.

Happy Toy

* On a related note, a vintage Fisher Price town we got them had a jail. I guess in the early 70s, bullies and criminal detention centers were still considered an appropriate element of pretend play by toy manufacturers.

A Friend In Need

Lewis P is in the hospital.

Who is Lewis P and how do I know this? He's a boy who goes to school with C, and he's also one of the first and only people C has ever mentioned to us. In fact, C has described him as "his friend," a proclamation so profound and surprising I don't think I could ever forget the name.

I asked C if he had played with him today. "No, Lewis P is at the doctor."

"He's not at school?"

"No, he's at the doctor."

C says a lot of unusual things, so I asked my wife about it. Her expression was grim. "Yes, I heard he was in the ICU."

So now there's this. A little boy I don't even know, but who has distinguished himself to me by being my son's first official friend, and now he's apparently in the hospital.

I don't know you, little Lewis, but I hope you will be back at school soon. There's a little boy I know who would like to have his friend back.